Well, 2012 is becoming the year of Fatherhood. Being a father of four, it is something that I always need to keep at the forefront of my mind. But with one of my sons at age 7 and another at age 12, I know that they are at some major crossroads and that I need to be at the top of my game to transition them to the the next level of life. This understanding has brought this newest book into my life: “Raising a Modern Day Knight” by Robert Lewis.
I thoroughly enjoyed this book. The concept of the book is to revisit the days of Knights and examine their natural transition from boyhood to knighthood. It is very interesting to see that there was a prescribed path for the boys to follow.
“At age 7 or 8 a boy would become a “page”. He was removed from his mother’s care and went to live in a castle, usually with an overlord or relative. Here, the page learned about armor and weapons and falconry, the rudiments of knighthood. He also performed household tasks for the ‘queen of the castle’.
At age 14, the page became a “squire”. He attached himself to a knight and traveled everywhere in his company, serving him in the most menial of tasks: He carried the knight’s lance, woke him in the morning, and even helped him dress. The squire also competed in tournaments and perfected the skills he had learned as a page. Such rigorous discipline prepared him for the final stage of his journey.
When he was 21, he was eligible for knighthood…” pp 16 & 17
Then the book unpacks some different ideas and ways that you can help your son transition from each stage. I came up with a lot of ideas and will be employing some concepts to my sons’ lives as we move forward in their life transitions. It is very practical and doesn’t delve into too many ‘ideological’ ideas.
The book is a very simple read. Weighing in at 163 pages, you will find yourself flying through this book. I did leave it wishing there were more. I wanted things spelled out a little more for me, but I didn’t get that. Instead, I have been forced to use my imagination and come up with some personal ideas to implement which is always a good thing to do too.
Stay tuned because I will be implementing some of the these ideas that I uncovered with my sons in the months to come and I will blog about how they unfolded at www.gphintz.com.
May we, as men, should live with the most important things at the forefront of our minds… “A will to obey (God’s)… A work to do… And a woman to love.”
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